Pics and video from an amazing Pride weekend at FLEX Spas Phoenix!
Plus… bloopers!

Last weekend, Dirk and I flew down to Phoenix, Arizona for a Saturday night appearance at the amazing FLEX Spas Phoenix! It also happened to be Phoenix Pride weekend, which made our visit extra special because we got to be on the FLEX float in the Pride parade! Our nighttime appearance was a lot of fun, too… the spa set up both a bed and a sling for us, and we put on a 45 minute live sex show for a packed house.

We shot a few videos while we were there, too. Here’s the official promo we filmed with Vision Video Productions to promote our appearance…

… and, as promised, the blooper reel from that video!

We also did a photo shoot with Vision Video… here’s a sampling of the results:

And finally, here are a few pics we shot at FLEX and at the Pride festival, as well as a Facebook Live stream we shot from the parade float. Thank so much to everyone who came out to see us, and to FLEX and Vision Video for being such great hosts… Dirk and I can’t wait to be back!!

Get your American flag PRIDE pin now to benefit two great charities!

It’s time for another charity pin sale… click here to get one for $10 and support two great charities! Details below.

Dirk and I are once again selling these sweet American flag pride pins for $10 each at, with 100% of the proceeds going to two very deserving charities (more on that in a moment). Free shipping to anywhere in the United States! We’re happy to announce that we’re able to offer international shipping now, too… just $3 flat rate to Mexico or Canada and $6 to anywhere else in the world. Only 30 are available and they go fast, so don’t wait!
What charities are we supporting?

We’re doing something a little different this time: you get to choose at check-out which charity your donation goes to! The first option is The Trevor Project, which provides crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and questioning young people ages 13-24. You can read about them at… Dirk and I have supported them in the past and have found them to be an important and deserving charity.

There’s a bit of a story behind why we chose the Harm Reduction Coalition for our second charity. As some of you know, Dirk and I were present on a recent Atlantis cruise on which one of our fellow passengers, a man named Joel Taylor, died of an apparent drug overdose. We were deeply saddened by this tragedy — we’d met Joel before and have several mutual friends — but we were also dismayed by the lack of harm reduction services available on the ship. At the events we’ve worked at in Europe and Australia, Dirk and I often saw highly-visible, trained medical personnel ready to administer emergency care for those in crisis in a caring and non-judgemental environment. They were also able to provide resources and contacts in case people want to receive longer-term assistance. We believe we need more of that kind of interventional care, especially here in America where we can’t seem to get our sticks out of our asses when it comes to drug use. That’s why we’ve chosen the Harm Reduction Coalition to benefit from this sale. The 501(3)c organization advocates for public reforms that promote the health and dignity of those impacted by drug use, and offers harm reduction training for professionals who serve the LGBTQ community. And we can’t think of a better charity to raise money for in Joel’s name.

Remember, you get to choose at check-out which charity you’d like your donation to support. There’s a third option as well: you can choose to have your donation split evenly between the two charities. But no matter which one you choose, you’ll be glad to know that your money is going to a very worthy cause… or two!

Thank you for reading… now head on over to and get yours before they’re gone!

Jesse and Dirk

New pics and video from our flogging demo at Sydney Mardi Gras!

On March 4, Dirk and I had the great honor of performing a live flogging demo on stage at the official Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras party! In front of thousands of people! I was pretty nervous going into it, although Dirk took it in stride. But I can honestly say that it was a lot of fun, and I hope we get a chance to do it again!

A friend of ours shot video of performance on his cellphone, which I’ve posted above, and some photos from our performance are included below. Thank you so much to the Mardi Gras organizers for including us!

Tiger Dirk auctions off a crocheted jockstrap for charity. (No, really.)

Okay, this is cool. Last month, my hubby Dirk participated in a charity auction sponsored by The Crochet Empire called MANIMALS: Jocks Fur a Cause. Dirk, along with Seth Fornea, Eli Lewis, Bryan Cole, Jared Bradford, Tayte Hanson, Brandon Renfroe, and Johnny V, auctioned off crocheted jockstraps to benefit two Chicago-based HIV/AIDS charities: TPAN and Chicago House. The event, hosted by Dixie Lynn Cartwright, looks like it was a lot of fun. And I hear they raised a ton of money! Hey Crochet Empire: When you host your third-annual MANIMALS, please consider counting me in! (Dibs on being a shark!)

By the way… this isn’t the first time Dirk has dressed up as an animal.

Photos by The Crochet Empire; video by @taytestagteam. You can buy your own crocheted jockstrap here.

Dirk and I (and tons of Titan Men) will be in Chicago this weekend!

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 Dirk and I will be in Chicago this weekend, along with our fellow performers David Benjamin, Nick Prescott, Adam Ramzi, and Dallas Steele, plus TitanMen director Jasun Mark! We’ll be attending the Grabby Awards ceremony, hosting an official Grabbys after-party, causing some mischief at Steamworks, and working at both the Steamworks and Rough Trade booths at the world-famous Leather Market at IML! Here’s the full list of places and times we’ll be appearing… hope to see you there!

Location Guide:

Friday, May 27th

  • 12:00 pm – 4:00 pm: Jesse Jackman and Dallas Steele at the Steamworks booth (IML Leather Market)
  • 4:00 pm – 7:00 pm: Dirk Caber and Nick Prescott at the Steamworks booth (IML Leather Market)
  • 4:00 pm – 7:00 pm: David Benjamin at the Rough Trade booth (IML Leather Market)
  • 9:00 pm: Jailbreak Party for Meet-n-greet, photo-ops, giveaways. Men only. (Steamworks Baths)
  • 11:00 pm: Dirk Caber and Nick Prescott live sex show. Men only. (Steamworks Baths)

Saturday, May 28th

  • 11:00 am – 2:00 pm: Adam Ramzi and Nick Prescott at the Rough Trade booth (IML Leather Market)
  • 11:00 am – 2:00 pm: Dallas Steele at the Steamworks booth (IML Leather Market)
  • 12:00 pm – 4:00 pm: Jesse Jackman and Dirk Caber at the Rough Trade booth (IML Leather Market)
  • 2:00 pm – 5:00 pm: Dallas Steele and David Benjamin at the Rough Trade booth (IML Leather Market)
  • 6:45 pm: Grabbys Red Carpet — all performers will be there! (Metro Theater)
  • 8:00 pm – 10:30 pm: Grabby Awards Show — Dallas Steele presenting! (Metro Theater) — Tickets available!
  • 12:00 am: TitanMen Rough Trade Party (Touché Bar) — all performers will be there!
  • 1:00 am: Dallas Steele, David Benjamin, and Adam Ramzi live show during Rough Trade party (Touché Bar)

Sunday, May 29th

  • 12:00 pm – 2:00 pm: Post Grabby Recovery Brunch — David Benjamin hosting! (The North End Bar)
  • 2:00 pm – 5:00 pm: Dallas Steele at the Steamworks booth (IML Leather Market)